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It Was Difficult for me to accept My Daughter Is Homosexual – Veteran Entertainer Charly Boy

Performer, Charles Oputa, otherwise known as Charly Boy, says it took a while for him to come to terms with his daughters sexuality. Charly Boy said this in a post on his online media handles.

The Area Fada said long before his girl disclosed her sexual orientation to him, he had participated in supporting LGBT rights. 

The maverick had in a viral photograph in 2011, kissed TV moderator, Denrele Edun, on the lips which started a heated conversation around his own sexual preferences. In any case, he said when his daughter came out as a lesbian in 2016, it wasn’t as simple for him to acknowledge.

He said:

“I am close with my youngsters and I love them to bits. They are my companions. Yet, I wasn’t generally prepared for the ‘breaking news’ my Princess Dewy had for me. At the point when my youngster revealed to me she is gay, a lesbian, I encountered a scope of feelings, during that telephone discussion.

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“Countless things experienced my psyche, one of them included self-fault (did I accomplish something incorrectly?) (the youngster I thought I knew and adored does not exist anymore.), stress (will my kid be oppressed?) strict disarray (is my kid cursed to spend forever in hellfire?), and shame (what will individuals think about my kid? of me?).”

Charly Boy, who is the son of the now late legal luminary, Chukwudifu Oputa, said he did whatever it takes not to go overboard when his girl talked about her sexuality since he would not like to strain their relationship.

He added,

“I was trusting it was a trick however it was occurring progressively. Despite the fact that I was bizarrely quiet through that discussion, my psyche was pondering every which way.

“Months before this episode, I was loaning my voice on the side of LGTB rights in Nigeria. Is life pulling pranks on me? Presently my girl is gay, for what reason do I feel disillusioned? Am I a scoundrel? How would I handle this sensation?”

“In actuality, I currently think back and find that I am thankful for the experience of having a gay or lesbian youngster,” he added.

 

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Tems becomes first African female artist to feature on a song with a billion Spotify streams.

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The record which features Canadian megastar Drake and vocals from the Nigerian award-winning star has enjoyed enduring commercial success since its release as part of Future 2022 album ‘I Never Liked You’.

The single has marked several high points for Tems including making her the first Nigerian artist to debut at the summit of the Billboard Hot 100. It also earned her her first Grammy award for Best Melodic Rap Performance at the 2023 Grammys.

With her latest feat, she joins Wizkid(Drake’s ‘One Dance’) and Rema (‘Calm Down’ featuring Selena Gomez) as the Nigerian artists who have appeared on songs with over 1 billion Spotify streams.

Since breaking into the international mainstream in 2020 after her decisive contribution to Wizkid’s hit single ‘Essence’, Tems has risen to superstardom with collaboration with Beyonce and Drake.

She also became the first Nigerian to earn an Oscar nomination after she was shortlisted for Best Original Score for writing ‘Lift Me Up’ the lead soundtrack for ‘Black Panther: Wakanda Forever’ which was performed by Rihanna.

At the 2025 Grammys, the singer made history by becoming the first Nigerian artist to be nominated in the R&B category with a nod for Best R&B Performance.

She also won her second Grammy award after she picked up the Best African Song Performance for her song ‘Love Me Jeje’.

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Chimamanda Adichie announces the birth of her twins at 47

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, the multi-award-winning Nigerian author has announced the birth of her twins with husband, Ivara Esege.

She made the good news known during her interview with The Guardian where she also spoke about her new book, Dream Count, cancel culture, and other topics.

The 47-year-old author revealed that she welcomed her twins months ago but kept the news private because she wanted to protect her children.

Chimamanda disclosed that many didn’t know she got married in 2009, noting further that Nigerians are nosy people, making her hesitant to talk about her family.

Addressing the interviewer, Charlotte Edwardes, Chimamanda said, “You’ve met my babies. I want to protect my children. I’m OK with mentioning them, but I don’t want the piece to become about them.

“So, here’s the thing, Nigerians are nosy, they want to know about your personal life. Because of that, I am resistant. I very rarely talk about it.

The mother of three, also spoke about cancel culture as she reflected on the massive backlash she received for her remarks about trans women in 2017. For the remarks, her career took a huge blow.

She had been asked during the 2017 interview whether a transgender woman was “any less of a real woman”. Her response was, “A trans woman is a trans woman”.

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“What do I want to say about cancel culture? Cancel culture is bad. We should stop it. End of story”.

Chimamanda is married to Ivara Esege, a Nigerian doctor. The lovebirds tied the knot in 2009 and welcomed their first daughter in 2016.

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Nedu Steps Aside From The Honest Bunch Podcast Amidst Sex-For-Roles Controversy

After finding himself in the heart of recent controversy, Nigerian media personality Nedu Wazobia has resigned from the popular podcast ‘The Honest Bunch.’

In a statement shared on Instagram on February 14, 2025, Nedu said hosting the podcast had been a great experience, but the recent constant scrutiny and false accusations had become too much for him.

He wrote, “The past week has brought a lot into perspective for me. Hosting The Honest Bunch Podcast has been an incredible journey—one built on open conversations, bold perspectives, and the willingness to tackle difficult topics. But with that responsibility has come an overwhelming level of scrutiny, antagonism, and unfounded accusations that have now begun to take a personal toll.”

He explained that stepping down was a tough choice but necessary for his peace of mind and the future of the show

In light of recent events, I have made the difficult decision to step away from the podcast. This is not a decision I take lightly, but one I believe is necessary—for my peace of mind, for my family, and for the integrity of the show itself. I have always been committed to honest conversations, but when those conversations lead to relentless attacks and misrepresentation, it becomes clear that stepping back is the best path forward.

I sincerely hope this decision brings an end to the negativity surrounding my name and allows The Honest Bunch Podcast to continue thriving.

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VeryDarkMan made the claim amid his ongoing face-off with stand-up comedian, Deeone who had claimed to have evidence that VeryDarkMan was gay during a recent appearance on the Honest Bunch Podcast, Deeone.

VeryDarkMan then threatened to release the names of all celebrities Nedu had allegedly slept with in exchange for roles.

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