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How To Know a Lady Is Attracted to You

Learn to read between the lines when dealing with the ladies. Here’s how to know a lady is attracted to you.

how to know a lady is attracted to you.

In most societies, the onus lies on the male folk to go after their love interest. The problem most times is that men need to know which lady is interested in other to make their move. Women over the years have been known to send signals in the most subtle ways. Find out how to know a lady is attracted to you.

You catch her looking in your Direction and throwing glances at you

This rule applies to both sexes incidentally. When you are at a social gathering and you single out that one person that’s constantly glancing in your direction and looking away just when you lock eyes. That’s your cue. Shes sending signals, and you need to act on them.

She chuckles at your jokes, even when they are not interesting 

Let’s be serious here, we not all funny. Not everyone is a Basketmouth or a Trevor Noah. But in any case, when a lady finds everything you say funny, she definitely has a thing for you. Chuckling at your not so funny jokes is a woman’s method of saying, “I truly like you, and I love having conversations with you”.

She cherishes being your friend

For the most part, friendship is the prelude to romance. When you realize that someone values your friendship, that’s usually a sign that she wouldn’t mind pushing further for something more romantic. When you can depend on her with your eyes shut when you realize she is consistently there for you when you feel down or needs a shoulder to lean on, you know you have found someone.

Observe When a lady is spinning her hair

Watch for hair whirling. When a lady constantly spins her hair in your company, it’s a sign. She’s showing off her beauty in the most subtle of ways and is hoping you are paying attention. So in the event that you notice a young lady spinning hair, it’s a good sign.

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She makes each event special

Regardless of whether it’s your birthday, your first-month commemoration, your first work, or the first day in school, she always remembers to make it special for you. She really will seize any opportunity to make you feel appreciated. It’s her way of showing she adores you with her entire heart, she’s speaking with her actions and hoping you are listening. 

Her voice tone changes when speaking with you

According to research, women lower their voice pitch when they’re talking to someone they’re attracted to, which means if she sounds husky, she’s likely into you. It’s a mostly unconscious ploy to sound sultry and intense.

She takes note of your dress sense

Women are observant, they have an eye for detail, so when they employ those superpowers in your direction you are special. When a woman takes note of your fashion choices and advises you about what to wear and how to look better for an event. It might be a sign she’s into you. 

 

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