In most societies, the onus lies on the male folk to go after their love interest. The problem most times is that men need to know which lady is interested in other to make their move. Women over the years have been known to send signals in the most subtle ways. Find out how to know a lady is attracted to you.
You catch her looking in your Direction and throwing glances at you
This rule applies to both sexes incidentally. When you are at a social gathering and you single out that one person that’s constantly glancing in your direction and looking away just when you lock eyes. That’s your cue. Shes sending signals, and you need to act on them.
She chuckles at your jokes, even when they are not interesting
Let’s be serious here, we not all funny. Not everyone is a Basketmouth or a Trevor Noah. But in any case, when a lady finds everything you say funny, she definitely has a thing for you. Chuckling at your not so funny jokes is a woman’s method of saying, “I truly like you, and I love having conversations with you”.
She cherishes being your friend
For the most part, friendship is the prelude to romance. When you realize that someone values your friendship, that’s usually a sign that she wouldn’t mind pushing further for something more romantic. When you can depend on her with your eyes shut when you realize she is consistently there for you when you feel down or needs a shoulder to lean on, you know you have found someone.
Observe When a lady is spinning her hair
Watch for hair whirling. When a lady constantly spins her hair in your company, it’s a sign. She’s showing off her beauty in the most subtle of ways and is hoping you are paying attention. So in the event that you notice a young lady spinning hair, it’s a good sign.
Regardless of whether it’s your birthday, your first-month commemoration, your first work, or the first day in school, she always remembers to make it special for you. She really will seize any opportunity to make you feel appreciated. It’s her way of showing she adores you with her entire heart, she’s speaking with her actions and hoping you are listening.
Her voice tone changes when speaking with you
According to research, women lower their voice pitch when they’re talking to someone they’re attracted to, which means if she sounds husky, she’s likely into you. It’s a mostly unconscious ploy to sound sultry and intense.
She takes note of your dress sense
Women are observant, they have an eye for detail, so when they employ those superpowers in your direction you are special. When a woman takes note of your fashion choices and advises you about what to wear and how to look better for an event. It might be a sign she’s into you.
Singer 9ice has sparked debate after saying his parents are his “God” and rejecting other deities, months after revealing he has practised as a Babalawo for 18 years.
9ice is once again at the centre of online debate after declaring that his parents, not any deity, occupy the highest spiritual place in his life.
In a video posted to his Instagram on Sunday, the artist said: “Today I’ll tell you something I don’t really talk about, but I’ll talk today. I love my mum, I love my dad, my god is my mum, my father is my god.” He went further in the comments, clarifying that the reverence typically reserved for an unseen God should instead be directed at one’s parents.
The singer didn’t stop there. “I don’t believe in inferior Gods,” he added, distancing himself from the worship of any other spiritual beings and insisting his belief system doesn’t fit neatly into traditional religious structures.
Predictably, the internet had thoughts, and most of them weren’t kind. A large chunk of reactions accused him of being under the influence of something, with many dismissing the statement outright rather than engaging with it.
This isn’t 9ice’s first brush with this kind of controversy, and that’s part of why the latest clip spread as fast as it did. Back in April, he went viral for a different but related rant, this time aimed squarely at Nigeria’s religious culture.
“You’ll leave Nigeria and go to Mecca to go and lick rock all in the name of Kabba,” he said then, arguing that decades of national prayer hadn’t translated into national progress. He compared Nigeria’s work ethic unfavourably to London’s, joking that between church on Sunday, Bible study on Wednesday and vigil on Friday, “when would you work?”
Some Nigerians found merit in his earlier point about productivity versus performative religiosity. Far fewer have extended that same patience to his spiritual claims, with both the Babalawo reveal and now this parental-deity comparison landing mostly as fodder for mockery rather than genuine reflection.
I Will Focus On African Music and culture – Davido
In a recent BBC 1Xtra interview, Davido revealed that his upcoming sixth studio album will be rooted in African sounds, marking a deliberate shift away from Western music influences. In a recent appearance on BBC 1Xtra’s Official UK Afrobeats Chart Show, hosted by Congolese-British comedian and presenter Eddie Kadi, Davido offered what appears to be the clearest indication of where his music is headed next, emphasising his plan to decenter the West.
“This part of my career… I’ve performed everywhere, sold out every arena, been at all the award shows. I’ve been to three Grammys in the last three years. Now, I want to go back home. I want to go back to Africa. Even the music I’m recording now is very, very Davido African. I’m not focused on Western sounds. This one that’s coming next is very African,” he said.
Outside the casual interview quote, if we can recall, on his birthday in November last year, Davido subtly announced the coming of his sixth studio album. With this latest comment, he appears to be offering an indirect preview of what that project will sound like, indicating a deliberate pivot toward African audiences after years of building and consolidating a global presence.
It would not be the first time Davido has made that choice consciously. His fifth studio album, 5ive, released in 2025, was a commercial success anchored firmly in Nigerian identity. The album connected deeply with the markets Afrobeats had spent a decade cultivating across the continent, reflecting an artist who understood that the genre’s most loyal and most responsive audience had always been at home.
That conviction extended to his live shows. Last year, Davido held the 5ive Tour across five major Nigerian cities, including Lagos, Ibadan, and Enugu. It was a domestic tour that came at a time when major acts had largely abandoned the Nigerian touring circuit, and was widely commended as a statement of intent.
#SpotlightAfricaThrowbackSeries The Exclusive Wedding of Chief Sunday and Mrs Oluwatosin Oso in Akure
Joyful was the moment when the families of Oso in Ado-Ekiti and Ojo in Akure, Ondo State, as their children, Chief Sunday Oso and Mrs. Oluwatosin Ojo, formally sealed their lifelong union with an exchange of marital vows on November 6, 2021.
For the two lovebirds, the aura exuded nothing but love, as they both looked resplendent in their beautiful attire, gazing at each other with overwhelming excitement.
The event kicked off with a photo session by the couple at St. Jacobs Hotel, a 5-star hotel in Akure, Ondo State, which hosted notable guests from across Nigeria and abroad. At the same time, families, friends, and well-wishers converged at BAS Event Centre, Akure, Ondo State, the venue for both the traditional marriage and reception.
The two families expressed their joy as they warmly welcomed one another during the engagement. Guests were enlivened with rib-cracking jokes by the popular actress, Ronke Ojo, popularly known as Oshodi Oke, who anchored the event. The Ogbomoso-based Fuji maestro, Ramoni Akanni, did not fail to entertain guests with lively music. It was an all-you-can-eat menu accompanied by varieties of drinks, wine, and liquor.
Dignitaries in attendance include top politician, Hon. Olu Araoyinbo, Chairman, West Park Hotel, Mr Rasaq Oseni, Aare Khalif Adebiyi, Nigerian-based businessman, Mr Sesan Adelabu, Emirates, Chairman, St. Jacobs Hotel, Mr Babatope Adebiyi (Jafil), the Waziri of Ekiti State, Alhaji Ajijola, former Chairman, Ado-Ekiti Local Government, Hon. Chief (Mrs) Tosin Aluko, among others.
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