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Growing Up: Tales From A Typical Nigerian Childhood

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Do you miss your childhood? Like do you miss when your only problem was trying to pick between two fancy shoes or two dresses your mum got you for Christmas? If you don’t I do I miss watching Hannah Montana, iCarly on Nickelodeon then going to school the next day to argue about it with my primary school classmates😭. You get to Primary 5/6 and then it’s time for common entrance and you have three big Ugo.C.Ugo textbooks that weigh you down. You write your first of many external exams.

Secondary school starts and then you feel on top of the world. You grow into puberty and start having crushes on the opposite sex. Secondary school is basically the most fun part of school life. Puberty starts to set in and then you just automatically want to grow up immediately. It’s WAEC and Jamb time and if you’re lucky you pass and get admission immediately. Some leave the country and the rest have to wait till the next year to rewrite those exams and that year basically makes or destroys the rest of your life because seeing your mates in school and you’re not.

Depression sets in and sometimes suicide sets in. I remember telling my elder sister that I couldn’t wait to grow up and be an adult like she is and she told me to better enjoy my childhood but I didn’t listen.

Growing up is a lot of struggle and it isn’t for the weak at all. You get into the University and that’s when all hell breaks loose; you have assignments, tutorials, projects to meet up and not everyone likes calling their parents every time to ask for money. That’s when you decide to think of a hustle because that’s always the next step.

Finally, the university is over then REAL life comes along, you have to know what you want to do with your life. It’s time to make very tough decisions. Job hunting starts and we know how difficult it can be to land a decent job without having a certain type of connection. When you finally get the job it’s either the salary doesn’t match the hard work you go through. You have a lot of expenses that need to be taken care of that don’t even cut through half of the salary.

There’s also the pressure from parents to get married. We all have different stories growing up and different backgrounds but what we have in commons is most likely the zeal to just exist and be happy. In the midst of all of these, our happiness can wear off and all you have left is just pressure from different people. In all of this, stay happy because that’s the most important.

 

Bowo Adigun is a contributor for Spotlight Africa Media.

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Wike promised to hold PDP for Tinubu, Makinde alleges

Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde, on Tuesday broke his silence on his rift with the Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Nyesom Wike, disclosing that their fallout stemmed from Wike’s alleged declaration to “hold down” the Peoples Democratic Party for President Bola Tinubu’s re-election in 2027.

Wike and Makinde were prominent members of the G-5 governors who opposed the PDP’s choice of Atiku Abubakar as its presidential candidate and Iyorchia Ayu as national chairman ahead of the 2023 general election, because both positions were occupied by politicians from the North.

Speaking during a media chat in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, Makinde said the relationship collapsed after Wike made what he described as a “shocking” declaration during a meeting with President Tinubu, which he said the President neither requested nor endorsed.

Makinde said, “The real issue was that I was in a meeting with the President. Wike, the President’s Chief of Staff and two others were also at that meeting. And Wike said to the President, ‘I will hold the PDP for you against 2027.’

“I was in shock. So we got to the veranda, and I said, ‘Wike, did we agree to this?’ The real issue is that Wike would like to support the President for 2027 – that is fine; it is within his right to do that.

But also some of us who want to ensure that democracy survive and we don’t drift into a one-party state, and we want to ensure that the PDP survive, he should also allow us to do our own thing. That is just the issue between Wike and me.”

But, the minister’s media aide, Lere Olayinka, slammed Makinde, describing the Oyo State governor as selfish in his political dealings.

Olayinka, in a post via his official X handle, accused Makinde of lacking loyalty to any individual or political party, insisting that the governor was driven solely by personal ambition.

Giving what he described as a rundown of Makinde’s political trajectory, Olayinka alleged that the Oyo governor joined the G-5 governors only to secure his re-election in 2023.

He further claimed that Makinde would, as he had allegedly done in the past, dump the PDP for another platform after the 2027 election.

Olayinka wrote, “Ibadan Gomina General has never been loyal to anyone or any political party; he is only about himself.

“In 2007, he left PDP for ANPP because he failed to get a senatorial ticket. In 2015, he left PDP for SDP because he failed to get the governorship ticket. In 2019, if not for the fact that he got the PDP ticket for governorship, he would have decamped to another party.

“In 2023, he joined the PDP G-5 governors to ensure his re-election. He is Governor Seyi Makinde, and surely, after 2027, he will be in another party.”

He also accused Makinde of working against Osun State Governor, Ademola Adeleke, during the 2022 governorship election in a bid to remain the only PDP governor in the South-West.

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Nnamdi Kanu Escapes Death Penalty, Bags Life Imprisonment For Terrorism Offences

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The Federal High Court sitting in Abuja has sentenced Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the proscribed group Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), to life imprisonment over terrorism offences.

Kanu stood trial for seven-count charges of terrorism brought against him by the Federal Government. Delivering judgment on Thursday, November 20, 2025, Justice James Omotosho pronounced the Biafran agitator convicted on all charges.

Despite the potential for a death sentence on counts one, four, five, and six, the judge upheld the law and sentenced Kanu to life imprisonment, demonstrating a commitment to justice.

He held that the prosecution had successfully established every allegation, while the defendant offered no credible defence and “deliberately refused” to challenge the evidence presented in court.

The judge added that the IPOB leader was “a person who cannot be allowed to remain in the company of sane minds,” while describing him as an “international terrorist.”

“I hereby sentence the convict to life imprisonment for counts one, four, five, and six, instead of a death sentence,” Omotosho ruled.

“With respect to Count Three, he is hereby sentenced to 20 years imprisonment without the option of a fine.

“For Count Seven, he is sentenced to five years’ imprisonment without the option ofa fine. To extend the mercy, I hereby order that the sentence shall run concurrently.”

On his decision not to hand the convict a death penalty, the judge cited a biblical verse that espouses the virtue of mercy, coupled with the fact that capital punishment is now being frowned upon by the international community.

Before the sentencing, the Federal Government, through its senior counsel in the matter, Adegboyega Awomolo (SAN), had asked for the death penalty.

“The punishment prescribed for the offences in Counts One, Two, Four, Five and Six, pursuant to Section 12H of the Terrorism Prevention Amendment Act 2013, is death,” he noted.

“With all sense of humility, I say as a prosecutor that this court has no discretion in that regard.

“The only sentence Your Lordship can impose for Counts One, Two, Four, Five and Six is death, because the law empowers you to do so, and we expect that you will.”

However, the judge noted that even though Kanu’s crimes merited capital punishment, he opted for a life sentence to show mercy.

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Incumbent Anambra Governor Charles Soludo Wins Anambra Election

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Governor Chukwuma Soludo has secured a return to office after the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) declared him the winner of the November 8, 2025, Anambra State governorship election. The results announced by the electoral umpire showed that the incumbent governor recorded a landslide victory, sweeping all the 21 local government areas of the South-East State. In the early hours of Sunday, November 9, the State Returning Officer and Vice Chancellor of the University of Benin, Professor Omoregie Edoba, declared Soludo the winner of the exercise after collating results from the state’s local government areas.

“I hereby declare that Soludo Chukwuma Charles of the APGA, having satisfied the requirements of the law, is hereby declared the winner and is returned elected,” Edoba said.

The final tally showed that the All Progressives Grand Alliance (APGA) candidate garnered 422,664 votes, pulverising his closest challenger, the All Progressives Congress (APC) flag-bearer, Nicholas Ukachukwu, who polled 99,445 votes.

Paul Chukwuma of the Young Progressives Party (YPP) came a distant third with 37,753 votes, while John Nwosu of the African Democratic Congress (ADC) scored 8,208 votes.

Labour Party’s George Moghalu and his Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) counterpart, Jude Ezenwafor, scored 10,576 votes and 1,401 votes, respectively. Peter Obi, a former Governor of the State and Labour Party’s presidential candidate in 2023, couldn’t bring his popularity to bear in the election.

Obi, who had spearheaded Moghalu’s campaign, not only failed to secure a victory for his preferred candidate at his polling unit, but the Labour Party’s total votes of 10,576 also fell way short of expectations.

Results from Polling Unit 019, Umudimakasi, Amatutu village, where Obi voted, showed that the APC recorded 73 votes, defeating the Labour Party, which polled 57 votes.

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